IssuesXC again XD

OK so in the time spam of 1week iv fought with 4 people , Gees XD its been crappy and hectic but oh well its all good now XP

Ether way here's what up , im sure most of you have gotten a random fave , llama or a watch from a random person that by chance never seems to talk ...right . I go to there profile just to talk and thank them but half the time I get replies like "im just shy"
or "I cant think of what to say" now im not saying that's not true cause it could be, im even guilty of doing this ...well at first after a while I did go back to most of my watches ( the none random ones) and talked to them and even did some request for them.

The issue im trying to address here is if you watch some one BUT never comment on their stuff or talk to them on a daily basis don't be freaked out when they don't comment on your stuff let alone watch you back. This is not a issue to me hell I have only (54) watchers and for those new that's not a lot its actually really pathetic in some peoples eyes , but not me im actually happy with the people that watch me well a small hand full of them really. Its good to have a small group of friend that like you for who you are and not just your art XD (thanks to my few watchers that I talk to quite a bit you know who you are XD stay awesomeX3) But ether way
im pointing this out now because my Girlfriend KaylaKedziora and I at first had a small issue with this guy( Kirby98  )
the first issue was he wanted my GF to edit a pic of some women's boobs  ( here's the link)www.deviantart.com/art/Wild-Wi…  after talking to  Kirby98 for a bit things had finally settled down hell my girlfriend even apologized.
But now she told me that she hasn't talk to him in months and he just  comes back to her profile and  starts accusing her of stuff she didn't do , she try to be the bigger person and rather then start a argument she just apologized for whatever bad thing she did with out knowing. But  Kirby98 just spit the apology right back at her face and processed to block her after giving her a ...watch?
Im trying to talk to him again so I can figure out what's really going on , but after sending him a (what's wrong comment) I noticed
in his comments hes calling all his watchers idiots for not commenting on his ....art(if you can call it that) . 

Kirby98 in regards to that " You idiots are giving me thanks for the watch but you never comment my work" comment on your profile
im sorry to say but buddy you do the same thing you been watching me since what  (April/28/2013) iv put up quite a bit of stuff since then and I never saw you comment or fave ANY of my stuff , so why do you get mad when we don't do it to you? 

What's your problem this time man?

so with all that being said ill leave you all with 1 question this time.

Q do you really care if people watch you but never talk or fave your stuff or are you like me and just take the complement.
leave your answer in the comments please . Thank you and have a good day .X3